Pretty
much everybody loves a good massage, especially after a tough day at
work or strenuous session in the gym. Great sex also has a relaxing
effect so, technically speaking, combining the two should have double
the impact and be twice as nice. This mixture of the two is known as
‘sensual massage’ and yes, it’s great!
There's a knack to giving a fantastic massage, however, especially an
erotic one! Here are some little tricks to wowing with your hands...in
more ways than one!
Perfect Prep
When getting ready to give your partner a sensual massage, you need to
obtain a few things first. You may want to set the mood with a few
candles and some ambient music in the background, this is optional
though. Make sure that your nails are trimmed and hands thoroughly clean
prior to beginning. Have a bottle of baby oil or massage oil to hand,
these come in a variety of aromas so if you’re feeling extra generous
you could cater to your partner’s tastes and purchase one that will
particularly tickle their fancy.
Warm It Up
When beginning, have your partner lay on their front, put the oil onto
your hands and rub them together to warm them up a bit as opposed to
slapping it straight onto their body. A good start to the massage is to
move the palms of your hands across their shoulders and back to get them
that bit extra chilled out. Now, during a sensual massage, your hands
are not the only tools you have to utilise, your entire body in fact can
be used to massage them. Oil your torso up and rub yourself up and down
on theirs once you feel that they’re getting into the swing of things.
Breathing in their ear whilst whispering horny words can intensify any
sensations from the massage.
Take It To The Next Level
Now’s the time to flip them over and get to the fun bits! Caress their
oiled nipples and slowly work your way down to their groin area using a
mixture of your tongue and hands. Work their upper thigh area with your
fingertips and move onto the genitals. Should your partner be a man,
with a moderately firm grip, hold the base of his penis with one hand
and caress it with your tongue and lips. You can choose to complete your
massage with your hands by massaging his member to orgasm, or finish
him off by treating him to a lip service or getting on top of him and
treating him to some mind blowing slippery sex. For a female partner,
from her inner thighs, relocate your fingertips to her clitoris and
tease it gently. Depending on how quickly you want her to come, you can
switch between this clitoral stimulation and reaching inside with a
‘come hither’ motion of your fingers to find her G-spot or both at once.
Sound good? Treat your bedmate to a fantastic little piece of heaven
and see if they return the favour, trust us, it’ll be worth it! What do
you get up to for Valentine's Day? Tell us in the comments.
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