Your Sexual Fantasies and What They Say About You.

Your fantasies are always with you, playing hide-and-seek with your perceived realities, whispering wild ideas into your inner ear, showing movies in your mind, stirring your passions mysteriously, yet so powerfully. If you ever feel imprisoned by your daily life your fantasies become your freedom. Your ability to fantasise is one of the greatest (and most pleasurable) talents you have.
If you ever wondered what your sexual fantasies say about you, look no further — according to experts, here’s what they might mean. Are you ready to get hot and heavy?

Just Do It

Being Dominant in the bedroom is one of the most common sexual fantasies. If you fantasise about someone begging you for attention and completely submitting themselves to your whims and fancies in the bedroom – you secretly desire control in real life too. According to research, it’s usually people who are easygoing in real life who wish to dominate behind closed doors.

Your Wish is My Command

Does an experienced master or mistress overpowering you in bed in a pleasurable way, excite you? Even though some people find whips and chains revolting, there are many who find submission quite enticing in the bedroom. Having a submissive sexual fantasy means that you might have some control issues. In one study, socially dominant people reported enjoying fantasies of submission more than others, which makes a lot of sense when you think about it—it can be liberating to give up power.

Check Me Out

Videotaping your makeout session, or just having sex on the beach – the idea of getting caught thrills you and totally turns you on. If you’re dreaming about making a performance out of your passionate love-making, then you’re probably an adventure junkie who is seeking an adrenaline thrill from the possibility of having sex without getting caught.

The Ideal Bedmate

The idea of being seduced and ravished by your version of Mr or Mrs Perfection is at the top of many people’s lists of fantasies. This could be an ex, a celebrity, a neighbour or even your current partner. Since this fantasy usually involves idealising, it may suggest that you need to spice up your sex life or that you are not satisfied with the current state of your reality. Also, if you are in a committed relationship and fantasising about someone else, it’s perfectly healthy to do so and does not mean that you would be unfaithful as many would speculate.

Strangers in the Night

Does the idea of a night of unbridled passion with a mysterious person, who you may or may not see ever again sound delicious to you? Well, you just don’t want to conform and wish to live in the moment and follow your instincts. You are probably secretly yearning to be free from responsibility and judgement, and simply desire to enjoy life the way you want to.

A Gleesome Threesome

If two guys or gals working hard to please you turns you on, then you actually desire to be fought over. It is one of the most common fantasies for both men and women and reveals how you wish to play hard to get and want people to make a real effort to win you over. Plus it’s just SO HOT, no?

Life’s a Stage

If you like donning different avatars in the bedroom, from a naughty boss to a risqué nurse - then you are creative and always wish to experiment with new things to keep life exciting. You love the anticipation that role-play tends to bring to even regular sex, and the entire construction of the fantasy is your art. You, my friend, are an artist! Do you think sexual fantasies are a healthy part of relationships and sex? What are some of your favourite fantasies? C’mon folks - don’t be shy! Feel free to share in the comments. Who knows, somebody might see it who would like to help make it a reality